The Ultimate Guide to Holiday Travel with Babies & Small Children
Nothing beats the excitement and joy of the holidays. You're probably looking forward to sharing this magical time and creating lasting memories with your little one (and maybe even starting some new family traditions!) However, when you mix in the logistics of traveling with babies and small children, it can quickly become stressful and overwhelming (speaking from personal experience!).
Headed Home for the Holidays?
As a newborn photographer, I’ve worked with countless families and understand the unique challenges of managing little ones and keeping them in the "happy zone." This guide will provide practical tips to ease your holiday travels, whether catching a plane or hitting the road. Let’s make this journey as smooth as possible for everyone!
Air Travel with Babies & Small Children
Book Smart
Choose Flight Times Wisely: If possible, book flights during your child’s usual nap schedule to increase the chances of your little one sleeping during the flight.
Direct Flights: Whenever possible, opt for direct flights to minimize the stress of layovers and potential delays.
Packing Flight Essentials
Documentation: Ensure you have all necessary documents, such as birth certificates, passports, and travel authorizations.
Extra Clothes: Accidents happen. Pack an additional set of clothes for you and yourself in your carry-on.
Diaper Bag: Pack enough diapers, wipes, and changing pads to last the entire journey, plus a few extras.
Snacks and Bottles: Bring your child’s favorite snacks and enough formula or breast milk for the trip. Baby food and milk/formula are exempt from liquid restrictions but must be screened, so make them easily accessible.
Comfort Items: Don’t forget a favorite blanket, stuffed animal, or pacifier. Familiar items can soothe a fussy kiddo. You might also consider a quiet white noise app or machine (they make battery-operated clip-on options, too).
Entertainment: Small, quiet toys, books, and pre-loaded apps on a tablet can keep your child occupied. The more variety, the better.
For older children, a tablet loaded with their favorite shows can be a lifesaver. My kids love Audible, Kindle, and Yoto, which allow them to listen to stories or flip through picture books. Older kids may like graphic novels like Dog Man or Wings of Fire. There are several magazines like Highlights (there’s a version for infants!), Nat Geo Kids, or Jack and Jill magazine that elementary-aged kids may like, too.
Target and Walmart have some fantastic (and less mess) travel kits for all ages.
At the Airport
Babywearing: Consider using a baby carrier. It keeps your hands free and can be comforting for your baby.
Stroller: If you need a stroller, use a lightweight one that’s easy to fold and carry. Most airlines will gate-check strollers for free. If you'll be driving after your flight, you can also bring your car seat with a travel cover and check it at the baggage drop.
Arrival: Arrive early to allow plenty of time for check-in and security.
Security Check: Be prepared to take your baby out of their stroller or carrier. Liquids for your baby (milk, formula) are usually permitted but must be declared/screened.
On the Plane
Ear Pressure on Takeoff & Landing: The change in cabin pressure can be uncomfortable for young ears. Breastfeed, bottle-feed, or offer a pacifier during takeoff and landing to help ease the pressure.
Older children can chew gum, eat a snack, or sip on water. (If you think they'll keep them in, you can try a pair of pressure equalizing ear plugs like EarPlanes children’s size.)
Change it up: Take out one toy, snack, or activity at a time. Let one item or activity run its course before pulling out another to keep them busy. You may even want to get a few new toys, books, activities, and snacks for the trip so they can experience it for the first time and stay interested longer.
Car Travel with Babies & Small Children
Preparing Your Vehicle
Car Seat Safety: Ensure your child’s car seat is installed correctly. Car seat safety is paramount, and it’s worth having it checked by a certified technician (most fire or police stations do complimentary checks).
Window Shades: Attach window shades to protect your child from direct sunlight and keep the car cooler.
Packing Essentials for the Road
Food and Drinks: Pack a cooler with snacks, pouches, drinks, and meals that are easy to eat on the go. Don’t forget bibs and wipes.
Toys and Entertainment: Bring a variety of toys, books, and music to keep your child entertained. Rotate toys to keep things interesting. (See the “Entertainment” section under Plane Travel for more ideas.)
Comfort Items: Familiar items like blankets and stuffed animals can make the journey more pleasant for your child.
Be careful not to cover your baby too much. Car seats are snug. And with rear-facing babes, they get less airflow. A light layer or a light blanket should be plenty.
Planning Your Stops
Frequent Breaks: Plan regular breaks every two to three hours to allow everyone to stretch, use the restroom, and get fresh air.
Safe Play Areas: Look for stops with safe play areas where your child can burn off some energy or babies can look around at new scenery.
During the Drive
Be Flexible: Be prepared to adjust your schedule based on your child’s needs. If they need a longer break or an unexpected nap, it’s okay to deviate from your plan.
Backseat Buddy: If possible, have an adult sit in the backseat with your child to entertain and comfort them.
General Tips for Holiday Travel with Little Ones
Stay Organized
Checklists: Use checklists to ensure you have packed everything you need. Include items like medications, baby monitors, special comfort items, sound machines, and travel documents. (This will help on the way home, too!)
Maintain Routine: Try to stick to your baby’s routine as much as possible, incorporating naps and feeding schedules into your travel plans. Keep friends and family updated, but take it at your own pace.
Stay Calm and Positive
Your child will pick up on your stress. Try to stay calm and positive, even when things don’t go as planned. A relaxed parent often means a relaxed child. (I know, much easier said than done at times.)
Prepare for the Unexpected
Flexibility is key. Despite the best plans, travel can come with delays and unexpected situations. Be prepared to roll with the changes.
Take Care of Yourself, Too
Remember to care for yourself, too. Carry healthy snacks, stay hydrated, and take deep breaths. Listen to your favorite music, splurge on your favorite coffee drink, and take turns stepping out if needed. The better cared for you are, the better you’ll be able to care for your little one and roll with whatever happens.
Keep It Simple
Don’t overpack, and stick to the essentials. “Just in case” items will add bulk and create more for you to keep up with and rifle through. You can most likely buy those non-essential items at your destination if you need them.
Safe Travels & Happiest Holidays!
Traveling with babies and small children over the holidays doesn’t have to be stressful. With thoughtful preparation and these handy tips, you can ensure the journey is more enjoyable for everyone. Remember, the goal is to create beautiful, lasting memories. Let go of expectations and enjoy the ride (even if it takes a little extra time and patience these days).
Safe travels and happy holidays!
With Love,
Jenny
